Oh, i wanted to tell dissonant harmony: your last paragraph is true. I fully agree. I do not want to produce anything... i try to follow... i would like to have words for it. I lost the connection with a leader once, because i realised after 30 seconds for a moment : omg... this was not his limit, he can do more . At the same time i try to get my **** together... basics, frame, positions of hands, light-not pulling- otherwise its bad for connection, core, centered, weight shifting, grounded... step a good 6 and 7. see... to have a deep theoretical knowledge helps me to make it... i know, that this might be strange for you and a lot of dancers ...just tolerate the difference, that's it.