Hey everyone! Something happened to me at my very first Salsa Congress. I was dancing with a really great dancer at this congress and we danced a few songs because he was that good! I felt a lot more comfortable in the bachata room because well I always thought that salsa was a lot harder. Anyways, as I am dancing with this man, he tried to kiss me and he did touch my lips but I pulled away. I am a nice person so I didn't reprimand him or anything. Honestly, it felt like a delayed reaction of me thinking "did that just happen?" At the time I was engaged! I didn't think much of it and told myself I would just have to keep my guard up. The next night of social dancing this guy pulled me out to dance and I told myself I better keep my guard up... Well there he goes trying to kiss me again and this time nothing happened because I was just prepared for it. Now I am married and feel so bad about it. A mix of being sad, feeling bad about it and of course a little anger. I never told him because I felt like I handled it appropriately. But now I feel like it was my fault! Should I tell my husband? He isn't a dancer so I'm afraid he will think more of it. I never thought that dancing with someone sensually would give them a green light to make a move.... I like to dance sexy and I am a sexy dancer but now I feel like I asked for it and it was my fault that he had the impulse to kiss me. I am so sad this happened. Please give me your thoughts... Comments.