Greetings, this is my first post here and I have a problem. I have a regular dance partner who is very special to me and I to him. We have been dancing together a lot in class and in the clubs for 9 months. He is all over the salsa scene, trying to get over his second divorce (a year and a half ago) but is a total gentleman, and I don't think he goes home with anyone. We have been out a few times, once to my company holiday party, and he has been so romantic with me. But we have never kissed. I've tried to initiate a conversation with him a few times but got mixed messages in response. I backed off because I didn't want to scare him. But I feel a lot of pain and jealousy when I see him hugging and kissing (on the cheek) other women at the clubs and workshops. It's so difficult for me. I've tried to disengage from him emotionally, but it's hard when I see him all the time. Plus I LOVE dancing with him. We are very special partners. He has told me I am special to him and has acknowledged our special connection. We are both in our 50's so we are both mature. I'm very attractive and get a lot of attention at the clubs. I have seen him be jealous and I've seen him hover over me all night trying to get a dance with me. He seems to treat me a little differently, but the better a dancer he becomes and the more partners he has, the more I see him hugging and lighting up with other women. It's so painful. I don't think he's ready for a relationship, but I can't seem to let go - mosty because he's EVERYWHERE on the salsa scene. I can't escape from him. Please help!